вторник, 24 августа 2010 г.

The look



As far as I remember myself I’ve always found it difficult watching people’s eyes. Then I remember a moment when it changed. I had personal development training and I discovered how inherent smile and look could be. I tried to be as much open and cheerful as can even thought it was still difficult to me.
Today walking along the park and meeting different people (I can’t tell actually how much I wanted to meet nobody) I understood that I’m avoiding people again. I always drop my eyes when they’re just supposed to meet others. Thus what the problem with me?
May be it because of that guy from my work in India who considered my friendly look as flirting. Then I got to know that in India girls use tender look to show they like guy as it not commonplace to say it. So it’s obvious that glance could be imprecise in different cultures or even situations. For example watching people in Emirates and in USA is absolute different things. As well as dropping your eyes could be considered ambiguously both modesty and guilt when you talk to people.
Anyway I should challenge myself looking at people’s eyes and who knows may be one day I would really enjoy it.